Condolence: I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. Recently I lost my dear mother, and found
great comfort in the Holy Bible, like at Isaiah 25 verse 8 - "The Sovereign Lord will
swallow up death forever, and wipe away the tears from all faces." Also at
Revelation 21 verse 4, we find God's promise to remove both pain and death.
I hope these verses will give you a measure of comfort during your time of grief.

Condolence: Ruth and sons,
I am so sorry for your loss but I will be praying for God to give you peace and keep His arms wrapped around all of you!
Much love to you and I am here if I can do anything for you!